As December unfolds, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the pressures of the holiday season. Everywhere we look, there are reminders of what Christmas is “supposed” to look like – perfectly decorated homes, thoughtfully wrapped gifts, and meals that could grace the cover of a magazine. Yet, as I reflect on this time of year, I’m reminded of the quieter, simpler tradition of Advent, a season of waiting, preparing, and anticipating something truly meaningful.
Growing up in Germany, December was a magical month. Each day my sisters and I opened another door of our Advent calendar, and sometimes we’d find a chocolate gold coin in our boots in the morning – a sign of things to come. We’d celebrate St. Nicholas on December 6 and light candles on the Advent wreath my mother had made. One of my favourite traditions was bringing the tree into the house just before Christmas. On December 24, the living room would be closed off all day as the “Christkind” worked its magic decorating the tree, setting up a small wooden nativity scene, and leaving gifts. After Christmas Mass in the evening, a little bell would ring, signalling that the room was ready. We’d step inside, filled with wonder at the transformation, sing a few carols, and only then open our gifts. That quiet sense of magic and anticipation has stayed with me and feels so different from today’s rush to make everything “perfect” and happen all at once.
Advent invites us to slow down and prepare not just our homes, but our hearts. It’s a time for reflection and connection, rather than hurried shopping sprees.
At the same time, this year has its unique challenges. With the Canada Post strike*, sending Christmas cards has become uncertain, and many parcels are delayed – including my family’s gifts, which are stuck somewhere between Germany and Canada. It’s a difficult time for small businesses in particular, who often depend on this season to connect with customers. As someone who pours care and creativity into each design, I can relate to the impact this has on makers and buyers alike.
Perhaps this moment also offers an opportunity to think differently about the season. Instead of striving for perfection, we can focus on meaningful, intentional choices. Supporting local makers, giving something handcrafted, or simply sharing time and conversation can be just as valuable as any gift under the tree.
As we approach Christmas, I try to embrace the season of waiting. Let Advent be a time to slow down, reflect, and reconnect with old traditions in my new home here in Canada.
Wishing you a meaningful Advent and Christmas season!
* Today, December 13, the Canadian government has initiated steps to end the Canada Post strike. While mail services are expected to resume soon, delays may continue as operations normalize.